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Old 12-01-2004, 03:12 PM   #6 (permalink)
EvilMJ
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EvilMJ gives some great advice
Default Re: How do I tell my wife she's gaining weight?

Gotta agree with the girls on this one. You are only going to hurt her feelings by saying she is eating like a cow.

Best way to do it is as suggested, find out if there is something else that is bothering her. I have battled weight all my life and have had my ups adn downs...One great thing I can say about my hubby..he has loved me no matter what size I was, he never made me feel bad about myself...and when I was ready to do something about it he was very supportive.

He never brings up my weight (even when I need to lose some), I never bring up his (little middle aged spread).

I think Vespertine has the best advice on how to approach it...got with that
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