The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Changing the "Rules" or more Broken Agreements

JnCC · 12-01-2004, 05:52 AM

Well, I guess the general consensus in here is that this is all "a bad thing" and that your marriage is doomed. Personally, I don't see what the problem is with all this.

Let's recap. You originally had fantasies of your wife getting hosed by another man. So, you arranged for that to happen. So far, so good. But after a while, you decide that one guy isn't enough, so you add a second. That's OK for a while, but you soon become jaded by the idea that "only" 2 guys are nailing her, so you add a third, and eventually a fourth. Many times, you aren't even there for a significant portion of whatever is going on, so she asks for, and you grant her, "time alone" with these guys.

Your role in this fantasy of yours is getting to be a smaller and smaller percentage of the whole. Her role is becoming less and less of human being, and more of an "object" of men's pleasure. That's when this new guy comes along...

He doesn't want to share her with a bunch of other guys. He listens to her when she says she's not comfortable with what you've been asking her to do. He holds her, cuddles with her during their "alone time," shares secrets (most likely about you) during their afternoon conversations. In short, he makes her feel "special."

He's not going to call you to ask for a "1-on-1." He thinks you're a dick. So does she. But she's going to try to hook you up with somebody, so she can carry on at will with her new lover. Of course, that's not what you're interested in...

This is all just fuckin' beautiful, that's what I say! She's finally met a man who doesn't find his pleasure in her degradation. Her fantasy has finally come true!

And you wanted to be cuckolded? I'd say you finally reached the "Diamond Level" of humiliation and cuckoldry, pal. You've been writing yourself out of your own movie for years now. I guess your fantasy has finally come true as well.

She's got what she wanted, you've got what you wanted. I reckon you 2 ought to be about the happpiest people in all of Massachusetts about now.

Where's the problem in that?

12-01-2004, 05:52 AM	#13 (permalink)
JnCC Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 817 Location: Mulletsville, USA	Re: Changing the "Rules" or more Broken Agreements Well, I guess the general consensus in here is that this is all "a bad thing" and that your marriage is doomed. Personally, I don't see what the problem is with all this. Let's recap. You originally had fantasies of your wife getting hosed by another man. So, you arranged for that to happen. So far, so good. But after a while, you decide that one guy isn't enough, so you add a second. That's OK for a while, but you soon become jaded by the idea that "only" 2 guys are nailing her, so you add a third, and eventually a fourth. Many times, you aren't even there for a significant portion of whatever is going on, so she asks for, and you grant her, "time alone" with these guys. Your role in this fantasy of yours is getting to be a smaller and smaller percentage of the whole. Her role is becoming less and less of human being, and more of an "object" of men's pleasure. That's when this new guy comes along... He doesn't want to share her with a bunch of other guys. He listens to her when she says she's not comfortable with what you've been asking her to do. He holds her, cuddles with her during their "alone time," shares secrets (most likely about you) during their afternoon conversations. In short, he makes her feel "special." He's not going to call you to ask for a "1-on-1." He thinks you're a dick. So does she. But she's going to try to hook you up with somebody, so she can carry on at will with her new lover. Of course, that's not what you're interested in... This is all just fuckin' beautiful, that's what I say! She's finally met a man who doesn't find his pleasure in her degradation. *Her fantasy has finally come true!* And you wanted to be cuckolded? I'd say you finally reached the "Diamond Level" of humiliation and cuckoldry, pal. You've been writing yourself out of your own movie for years now. *I guess your* fantasy has finally come true as well.** She's got what she wanted, you've got what you wanted. I reckon you 2 ought to be about the happpiest people in all of Massachusetts about now. Where's the problem in that?