[gsu22]

Well, we all can't jump in head first and just go for it. Excuse me for being a little timid but thats just the way I am. I don't lack the balls to do anything. I want to and will eventually try MM...but until then, I will have to remain curious.

Part of swinging....sex....bisex....whatever.... involves doing what you're comfortable with...forcing something can sometimes kill the experience....I'm not going to suck any dick I see in a "leather bar".....and for several reasons, hitting a gay bar wasn't what I had in mind for my first bi experience

And honestly, I don't think getting a girlfriend is really going to help...being a single male up until this point has worked well for me...