[JustAskJulie]

I think Misterbates hit it on the head. You guys aren't swinging, you are the cuckold. You are sitting back and your wife is doing what she wants while you wait at home for her to return.

Swinging is about both people and swinging is not for everyone, and it definately doesn't sound like it is for the two of you.

The real issue here is your relationship and how this is affecting it, and it sounds like it is affecting it both positively and negatively... making your sex life better, but the rest of your relationship worse as you continue to feel left out.

We can't tell you what to do here, all we can do is tell you how we would feel in your position and I think most of us would agree that were we in your position, enough would be enough and with only one person getting what they want ALL the time while the other person constantly gives in (regardless of what the situation is - sexual or not), that can't go on forever and something has to change.

As far as "broken agreements" go, it doesn't sound like you guys ever had any agreements to begin with, which is a problem to start.