[xxoticangel]

As I have gone about the house doing stuff today my mind keeps drifting back to this thread. Since my earlier post I have began to wonder how would a male break the bi-ice with another male if it wasn't understood before and how would you express your limits without breaking the mood. The first time I was with a guy it just sort of happened with my wife's urging. She knows about my tendencies and was able to urge him into starting oral on me. The second time was with a transexual that was on hormones. He had boobs, no body hair, and due to the drugs was unable to achieve a full erection. At one point that night I took him anally but that was at his urging. The reason I bring this up is we have a date this coming Saturday with a bi-male. If at some point in the evening I want to cross that line how do I do so? He may not want to with me or vice versa so I am uncomfortable bringing it up ahead of time. Also, how do I let him know that I don't bottom? If he is into bottoming for me thats fine but I have no interest in returning the favor.