I label myself bi on these boards because I have had oral sex with men (2) in the context of swinging with my wife. In our online ads I list myself as straight. Why? Becsues we are not really looking for a bi-male. If it happens thats ok but the main thing we are looking for is couples and single guys for MFM.
I also understand jcbicouple's reluctance to play with bi-curious people. My wife has had a few dissappointing expierences with "bi-curious" women. Most bi-curious woman are just doing it for their husband and have no real interest in it themselves. If you are bi you are bi, you may be a bi-virgin but you are still bi. If you are not sure if you want to have sex with someone of the same gender you are probably not bi. curiouscpl0105k said
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we BOTH want to experience sex with a SAME SEX partner
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if that is true you are bi not just curious.