hi again all...
i can see where all of you are coming from in your responses.
i must say that i feel a bit more down than uplifted though after reading the final post here....about turning down "bi-curious" couples simply b/c they call themselves "bi-curious".
i totally get (after lurking around and reading many posts as they appear) that there is a BIG iffy trust issue as far as finding people on the internet goes....but as i've said before we are stuck w/ this method for the time being due mainly to our own social issues!
However....we REALLY ARE bi-curious, and that;s the best way i've found to describe it!
We are BOTH completely happy w/ our own personal, married, heterosexual sex life.....BUT we BOTH want to experience sex with a SAME SEX partner. my husband is a master at giving me oral.....and he loves to fantasize about giving and/or receiving head, hand jobs and possibly anal with another man. I also have always (since i was young) wanted to and knew i would have sex with another woman. It just happens to be that we are going to do this all together.....
I am not at all coming down on you for your decision (as i am SURE you know these ropes better than we do!) i just know that in the amount of time we have been seeking out others who are of like minds.....that we have run across COUNTLESS scum...and i HATE to think that we are also being grouped in with these sort of people..
the ones who "say" they have a wife....and that they are "really" bi-curious...but all they want is a photo or two of some nice tits!
but...we will press on and hopefully (as with other internet "groups" of sorts) we will make our intentions known as we stick around and meld into the online swinger community!
