[jcbicouple]

We are both bi, and have no problems finding bi playmates. We understand why newly bi or bi-curious do though, because we are one of the couples that turns down "bi curious" people on the net (both female and male).
Why? A couple of reasons. First, We've found that most of the "bi curious" we meet through the internet tend to turn out straight (this may just be that they are nervous or too afraid to try, whatever, but it doesn't change the outcome)
Second, There are so many "straight" (that say they are really bi or curious in their e mail or IMs) and "bi curious" people as well as "bi" people that contact us on the net that we limit our "interest" to bi people: It helps to eliminate most without the effort involved in meeting or the hassle of the first reason.
We do play with Curious and Straight people when we meet them through chance meetings, but the straight people have to be at least bi tolerant and not be uncomfortable with either of us.