[DBStPete]

One trend I've noticed is that the bi couples tend to be older. Once you get into the "senior swingers" group, it's actually not uncommon at all. Maybe it's because people get more comfortable with themselves and their sexuality as they get older?

As for us, even though I'm somewhat bi-curious, for now at least our profile is adamant that we only want straight guys. Why? A couple of reasons, that may or may not be justified. One is fear of AIDS. Yes, we practice safe sex (well, usually), but that's never 100%. The closer you get to the gay or IV drug communities, the more risk there is. A second reason is to not get hit on by guys who are more gay than bi. Based on our own experience and in talking to other couples, that seems to be fairly common.

Then there's the issue of "what's bi"? For me, I like cocks and find them fascinating, but I don't think of men as sex objects, and I have zero interest in anal sex with men, giving or receiving. If I say I'm "bi curious" will that imply I'm bi-anal-sex-curious? Better not. Easier to just not go there.

I find it more comfortable to get to know folks and see where things go. I've had several experiences that you could only count as bi with supposedly-straight guys in the context of MFM sex. I suspect it's more common than you might think, especially if you're talking about things other than male anal sex. I also suspect there are more "stealth bi" couples out there, just like us. Maybe look for couples that seem particularly open-minded, and go from there?

Mr. DBStPete