 Re: Hot and Cold
I remember the exact moment the subject of swinging came up for us- we were riding my husband's motorcycle, we have voice activated intercoms & he asked me if I had ever thought of being with another woman-good thing he was the 1 driving! I told him I thought it would be kewl & then we talked about it in depth for a long time..we added talking about it during sex & what was great sex became amazing sex! we watched programs, read articles & when Oprah covered it, I read most of the message boards, found the link to this board & finally feel like we are getting real life info. I was single for many years before I met my husband, we dont have any kids so the 'mommy issue' isnt an obstacle for us. I think it does come down to complete honesty & open discussion & ultimate trust in yourself & your partner
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