[Hellboy]

That's it exactly. And looking at the advice we have gotten, it all looks positive, but to me it feels like it could break either way. The wrong word at the wrong time and it could blow the whole deal or switch it into high gear. That's the frustrating part and now I feel like I am walking on egg shells. I could just pester her to death and use my powers of presuasion, but then it would feel 'wrong' So we all sit and wait, calculate everything we say and hope it all come out right. BTW, we had fantastic sex this evening and the letter is laying on her night stand. I asked her afterwards if she had anything to say in regards to it and she said she was still thinking. I want to believe she is really working it out, but a small voice is telling me she is thinking of the best way to let me down easy. Who knows? Only time will tell, but after what I have seen, it would probably be shocking if she said flat out no. I can also see a scenario where we meet another couple and she just doesn't feel it and that shuts her down for good.

I spoke with an old buddy of mine tonight and back in college we were very good friends. His wife is a little wilder than mine and when I told him what we did for my birthday last Friday (strip club) he told me he and his wife had done the same. I knew his wife before they got together and I know she was at one time bi and that her and my wife get along great. Hmmmm......I know I can trust them. . . . hmmmm.......It's a thought. I get the feeling my wife would be more inclined to do it in the moment than to plan it out to the nth degree. Perhaps.....