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Old 11-25-2004, 07:38 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: Laying it on the line....

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Originally Posted by DBStPete
It's not at all unusual for couples to spend a long time, years even, thinking about it. And if you push, it usually backfires. You just have to be patient. But consider this: objections are usually about fears, and fears are usually about insecurity of some sort or another. Do what you can to boost her security in you, your relationship, and herself. It will pay dividends.
This is excellent advice - push too hard, too fast and you're asking for trouble.

And this is just hilarious:

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Originally Posted by EvilMJ
like trying to walk a cat on a leash.
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