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Hellboy · 11-25-2004, 03:30 AM

After last Friday night and the strip club, I decided it was time to lay it all out for my wife and see what she thought. Of course, I was hoping it would mean "That would be awesome! Let's do it!" But what came out was "I don't know. I really need to think about this---I don't want to talk about it anymore right now" Well, not to be detered, I wrote it all out on paper, printed it out and gave it to her. My fantasies (broad overview) My ideas on swinging and how it would effect our marriage (the difference between love and erotic exploration) and I invited her to here. Being that I otherwise had one of the ugliest nights of my life, (not at all invloving my wife) we have not discussed it any further. All I really want to know is if she is willing to entertain the possibility. (I'm 80% sure she is, but she has issues to work through first)

11-25-2004, 03:30 AM	#1 (permalink)
Hellboy Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 59 Location: Texas Status: Couple	Laying it on the line.... bringing up the subject to my wife After last Friday night and the strip club, I decided it was time to lay it all out for my wife and see what she thought. Of course, I was hoping it would mean "That would be awesome! Let's do it!" But what came out was "I don't know. I really need to think about this---I don't want to talk about it anymore right now" Well, not to be detered, I wrote it all out on paper, printed it out and gave it to her. My fantasies (broad overview) My ideas on swinging and how it would effect our marriage (the difference between love and erotic exploration) and I invited her to here. Being that I otherwise had one of the ugliest nights of my life, (not at all invloving my wife) we have not discussed it any further. All I really want to know is if she is willing to entertain the possibility. (I'm 80% sure she is, but she has issues to work through first)