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lizandtom · 11-24-2004, 03:57 PM

Julie hit it right on the head. If everyone's not comfortable, it just shouldn't be. I'm the male 1/2 and on more than a few occasions I felt another couple was clicking well enough with us, but the Mrs. didn't, and I made it worse by trying to point out the "good" things about the other couples, but she just said NO and said to leave it at that and stop pressuring. We are new also but I've come to realize that better to abide by NO and to stay in for the long term, than to go for the quick (f)buck for my own satisfaction.

11-24-2004, 03:57 PM	#8 (permalink)
lizandtom Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 287 Location: Long Island, NY Status: Couple	Re: Hubby doesn't understand No!!! Julie hit it right on the head. If everyone's not comfortable, it just shouldn't be. I'm the male 1/2 and on more than a few occasions I felt another couple was clicking well enough with us, but the Mrs. didn't, and I made it worse by trying to point out the "good" things about the other couples, but she just said NO and said to leave it at that and stop pressuring. We are new also but I've come to realize that better to abide by NO and to stay in for the long term, than to go for the quick (f)buck for my own satisfaction.