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This is between you and your husband and you have to consult your own ground rules. Do you have a rule that says that we only play together (both of us or none at all). If you do you have a perfect right to be angry, he dropped the ball and his respect for you. If not this is something that needs to be addressed before you consider playing again. When you are new it is hard to cover all scenarios that can come up, but this is certainly one of them. Hope it all works out for the best.