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***JustAskJulie*** · 11-24-2004, 03:38 PM

No is ALWAYS NO! The fact that your husband completely disregarded your feelings is a huge red flag to me.

Do you guys have any rules about playing seperately? If you don't have rules regarding that OR you do allow it, then it's a little less of an issue.

Whatever the case, you need to sit him down and have a long chat and explain what it was that bothered you and how out of line it was. If he is going to continue to be that inconsiderate of your feelings then you both need to take a step back and stop swinging altogether until you have this and any other issues you may have resolved.

11-24-2004, 03:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Hubby doesn't understand No!!! No is ALWAYS NO! The fact that your husband completely disregarded your feelings is a huge red flag to me. Do you guys have any rules about playing seperately? If you don't have rules regarding that OR you do allow it, then it's a little less of an issue. Whatever the case, you need to sit him down and have a long chat and explain what it was that bothered you and how out of line it was. If he is going to continue to be that inconsiderate of your feelings then you both need to take a step back and stop swinging altogether until you have this and any other issues you may have resolved.