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wetandwild70121 · 11-24-2004, 03:09 PM

We are a married couple in the lifestyle for about six month. Very new to the lifestyle, I had a situation come up , that really has me bugged.
My husband and I visited an off premises club not long ago. We met a couple that he had been speaking to on line. After spending time with them, I didn't feel a connection to the male side of the couple.
My husband pulled me to the side and asked if I would like to get a room. I told him no, that I really didn't feel attracted to the male at all.
He said ok, that he understood, and walked away. The next thing I see, is he sitting in a chair in the club, with the women on top of his lap, when I walked over to them, he had taken his penis out, and was going at her right then and there. When I called him, down on it, he didn't seem to care, It was in his mind that he wanted her,and even though I had said no, he was going to have her, and did.
My question is, How do you handle a situation like this. When is NO, NO...or am I missing something, Is it ok, for him to be with the women, even if he knows that I didn't want to be with them? It really had me angry !!!

11-24-2004, 03:09 PM	#1 (permalink)
wetandwild70121 Registered User Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1 Location: Houma Status: m. female Swing Lifestyle Name:tomandjane70360	Hubby doesn't understand No!!! We are a married couple in the lifestyle for about six month. Very new to the lifestyle, I had a situation come up , that really has me bugged. My husband and I visited an off premises club not long ago. We met a couple that he had been speaking to on line. After spending time with them, I didn't feel a connection to the male side of the couple. My husband pulled me to the side and asked if I would like to get a room. I told him no, that I really didn't feel attracted to the male at all. He said ok, that he understood, and walked away. The next thing I see, is he sitting in a chair in the club, with the women on top of his lap, when I walked over to them, he had taken his penis out, and was going at her right then and there. When I called him, down on it, he didn't seem to care, It was in his mind that he wanted her,and even though I had said no, he was going to have her, and did. My question is, How do you handle a situation like this. When is NO, NO...or am I missing something, Is it ok, for him to be with the women, even if he knows that I didn't want to be with them? It really had me angry !!!
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