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Wedding vowes were a big issue with me. I had a real hard time getting around the "keep myself only to him" part. But after many talks we both decided this isnt cheating in any way and that is what the vowes mean to us. We are doing this as a couple together...with permission from both and not sneaking around behind each others backs. At first I felt like I was going against our vowes since I took them very serious but I though long and hard..no he didnt even try to convince me of anything since I started all this in the first place..lol..I dont feel as though I have broken any of them so all is good!