The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Changing the "Rules" or more Broken Agreements

Denver2some · 11-23-2004, 03:43 PM

misterbates has a good point about the control factor. One of the classic signs of a controlling personality is to keep a "scoreboard." As in ... "I did this for you, so now you need to do this for me." The scoreboard is trotted out for display, whenever the controlling person wants something from you.

You need to take a stand, no question about it.

11-23-2004, 03:43 PM	#6 (permalink)
Denver2some Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 261 Location: Denver, CO	Re: Changing the "Rules" or more Broken Agreements misterbates has a good point about the control factor. One of the classic signs of a controlling personality is to keep a "scoreboard." As in ... "I did this for you, so now you need to do this for me." The scoreboard is trotted out for display, whenever the controlling person wants something from you. You need to take a stand, no question about it.