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SexhoundDog · 11-23-2004, 03:18 PM

lwg,
I almost think you could've written my story, but it sounds like you've had more serious talk than my wife and I have and should be much further along. If nothing else, she at least shares her fantasies better.

My situation involves a desire to see my wife enjoy a few extra guys. Sure I think it might be fun to do a full swap, but I don't think she could handle the jealousy or insecurity factor. A MFM or else an adventure where me and another guy of her choosing are pleasing her is something I'd love to try at least once, but obviously that's her call. Sometime back I'd brought it up that I probably had as many fantasies about her sucking some guy's cock while I was screwing her as I did about me being with any other woman in any situation. I figured this "let the cat out of the bag" so to say, and that I'd listen real close during sex or other conversations for dirty talk that might let me know she was either enjoying the fantasy or plugging along for a way to bring it up further with me. However, nothing.

I don't know if it's a mommies don'd do those things or if it's just a good girls don't syndrome. All I know is that it can be frustrating. I think what you could do is bring it up in an indirect sense while you're having sex with your wife. Maybe when things are hot, you can talk dirty and whisper to her how much the thought of her fucking another guy turns you on but that you'd like to do more than just watch. She may or may not do anything, and then maybe a few times later, you say something similar again.

Since I think your progress so far isn't as slow as you might think, don't be in a hurry to be "that engineer who likes specifics and a plan." It may not happen that quick and it will probably have a degree of spontaneity to it that will surprise you. But, good things cum, or is that come, to those who wait.

11-23-2004, 03:18 PM	#5 (permalink)
SexhoundDog Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 357 Location: Colorado Status: M.Male	Re: Hot and Cold lwg, I almost think you could've written my story, but it sounds like you've had more serious talk than my wife and I have and should be much further along. If nothing else, she at least shares her fantasies better. My situation involves a desire to see my wife enjoy a few extra guys. Sure I think it might be fun to do a full swap, but I don't think she could handle the jealousy or insecurity factor. A MFM or else an adventure where me and another guy of her choosing are pleasing her is something I'd love to try at least once, but obviously that's her call. Sometime back I'd brought it up that I probably had as many fantasies about her sucking some guy's cock while I was screwing her as I did about me being with any other woman in any situation. I figured this "let the cat out of the bag" so to say, and that I'd listen real close during sex or other conversations for dirty talk that might let me know she was either enjoying the fantasy or plugging along for a way to bring it up further with me. However, nothing. I don't know if it's a mommies don'd do those things or if it's just a good girls don't syndrome. All I know is that it can be frustrating. I think what you could do is bring it up in an indirect sense while you're having sex with your wife. Maybe when things are hot, you can talk dirty and whisper to her how much the thought of her fucking another guy turns you on but that you'd like to do more than just watch. She may or may not do anything, and then maybe a few times later, you say something similar again. Since I think your progress so far isn't as slow as you might think, don't be in a hurry to be "that engineer who likes specifics and a plan." It may not happen that quick and it will probably have a degree of spontaneity to it that will surprise you. But, good things cum, or is that come, to those who wait.