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Originally Posted by biblonde I say take your time and continue what you are doing. It sounds as though she is working through what alot of us have to work through. We arent suppose to be naughty and be mommies to. We are taught that we are suppose to be good girls once we have kids. Well..after a lot of talk I felt comfy to go the distance and love every minute of it. She may also be wondering what you will think of her if she goes for it. I was real concerned about letting my hubby know all my deepest fatasies although he always said he would love to see me with other females and such. She may just need a little reasurance that you will be okay with all this and wont freak if it ever happens. It may take some time but I think you are headed in the right direction!!
best of luck and maybe you should show her this forum. It has helped us alot in knowing that we arent the only ones who think this way..have these thoughts..etc.. It would give her a chance to ask questions and decide if this is really something she could do. |
I agree with biblonde, but don't think it's necessarily a Mommy thing. I think it's a female thing. We've made a lot of progress over the decades, but "Good Girls Don't" is still taught in many households ... all the way up until marriage. It's going to take time, a lot of talking, and patience to help her think through her feelings. But it sounds like you've got a good start. Be patient ... good things come to those who wait. facelick Be encouraging but not pushy. Ask her gently why she has reservations, and pay careful attention to her response: it will give you clues as to what her top concerns are, and how to help her with them.