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biblonde · 11-23-2004, 12:25 PM

I say take your time and continue what you are doing. It sounds as though she is working through what alot of us have to work through. We arent suppose to be naughty and be mommies to. We are taught that we are suppose to be good girls once we have kids. Well..after a lot of talk I felt comfy to go the distance and love every minute of it. She may also be wondering what you will think of her if she goes for it. I was real concerned about letting my hubby know all my deepest fatasies although he always said he would love to see me with other females and such. She may just need a little reasurance that you will be okay with all this and wont freak if it ever happens. It may take some time but I think you are headed in the right direction!!

best of luck and maybe you should show her this forum. It has helped us alot in knowing that we arent the only ones who think this way..have these thoughts..etc.. It would give her a chance to ask questions and decide if this is really something she could do.

11-23-2004, 12:25 PM	#3 (permalink)
biblonde Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,020 Location: sacramento Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:curious1918	Re: Hot and Cold I say take your time and continue what you are doing. It sounds as though she is working through what alot of us have to work through. We arent suppose to be naughty and be mommies to. We are taught that we are suppose to be good girls once we have kids. Well..after a lot of talk I felt comfy to go the distance and love every minute of it. She may also be wondering what you will think of her if she goes for it. I was real concerned about letting my hubby know all my deepest fatasies although he always said he would love to see me with other females and such. She may just need a little reasurance that you will be okay with all this and wont freak if it ever happens. It may take some time but I think you are headed in the right direction!! best of luck and maybe you should show her this forum. It has helped us alot in knowing that we arent the only ones who think this way..have these thoughts..etc.. It would give her a chance to ask questions and decide if this is really something she could do.