 Re: Hot and Cold
If your wife is anything like me then I would say the idea really excites her but she is working through the "mommies don't do these things". My husband and I have been playing that same game of talking about it during sex (which makes for a GREAT time) and discussing it when were alone for over a year now. We started with a little porn here and there, then we joined a board for finding couples to talk to on the internet. We did that for awhile, living our fantasies of a threesom out over the web. Now were ready for the real deal. It has taken time. I was reluctant because we are really pretty conservative people (hard to believe I know). I want to be really careful and discreet. My advice would be to keep whispering it during intimate times, maybe find some people on the net to have cyber sex with and eventually the idea of real swinging will feel more natural.
Good luck!
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