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lwg8tr01 · 11-23-2004, 09:27 AM

I don't think this is one of those typical "I think my wife wants to" questions. A little background. We have been married for 12 years, 2 kids and for the most part a satisfying but a little on the conventional side sexual relationship. We have been like most suburban cpls, raising kids, mortgages, bills and your typical 45 minutes of Saturday night "Date night". After a promotion at work with a substantial pay increase and my Wife after 6 years picking back up her lucrative part-time job, money woes and worries have subsided substantially. Wife has begun getting her hair done again and has lost a little weight, and starting wearing a little more makeup and perfume then she had when the kids were real little. Not complaining I really like this transition from fulltime sweat pants Mom to Sexy Mom. We have excellent communication and are truly each others best friend.

As with some couples a naughty night of PPV Playboy channel lubed some conversation. We talked about fantasies and other taboo subjects we rarely talk about. Well the subject of swapping, swinging and 3-somes came up and the Wife quickly got off the subject with a giggle and her 30 dollar Victoria Secret panties twirling on her index finger. Well as the weeks progressed we drilled down more into our fantasies and kept coming back to the subject of us sharing our bed with others. During foreplay and intercourse my normally conservative wife began panting and groaning profusely and then began in a very throaty voice whispering dirty talk to make a sailor blush. To quote "You'd like to see me get fucked and have some other guys cum running down my leg wouldn’t you". I about lost my mind and exploded in a tremendous orgasm. We collapsed and slept naked(Something we never do). Well as the weeks progressed the dirty talk and fantasies continued as well as the frequency of our sex. Well taking advice from here I really needed to gauge real interest and see if it was something she really wanted to pursue. So when Saturday night came around we ordered some Playboy, drank a wine cooler and did some petting and kissing. My heart was pounding and I was scared to ask. I pulled back and said "Honey I know we talk dirty and stuff but I really need to know..." "Do you want a 3 some or some other arrangement". Her answered floored me "Well I would like to surprise you and just fuck a guy with you watching". Sounds pretty standard stuff right? Well we dropped the subject and over the next few weeks the subject was brought up without awkwardness. Now I am an engineer and like specifics and a plan. My question is every time I ask her how she would like to accomplish this and other logistical questions she changes the subject. I did bring up Birth Control since I am snipped and just don't trust condoms for BC, since our Daughter is result of a busted one. I suggested the pill and once again she sloughed off my conversation. Does this sound like my wife wants to keep this in the realm of fantasy or is she being restrained by some conditioning that Mommies don’t do those naughty things.

11-23-2004, 09:27 AM	#1 (permalink)
lwg8tr01 Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 2 Location: Jupiter, FL	Hot and Cold I don't think this is one of those typical "I think my wife wants to" questions. A little background. We have been married for 12 years, 2 kids and for the most part a satisfying but a little on the conventional side sexual relationship. We have been like most suburban cpls, raising kids, mortgages, bills and your typical 45 minutes of Saturday night "Date night". After a promotion at work with a substantial pay increase and my Wife after 6 years picking back up her lucrative part-time job, money woes and worries have subsided substantially. Wife has begun getting her hair done again and has lost a little weight, and starting wearing a little more makeup and perfume then she had when the kids were real little. Not complaining I really like this transition from fulltime sweat pants Mom to Sexy Mom. We have excellent communication and are truly each others best friend. As with some couples a naughty night of PPV Playboy channel lubed some conversation. We talked about fantasies and other taboo subjects we rarely talk about. Well the subject of swapping, swinging and 3-somes came up and the Wife quickly got off the subject with a giggle and her 30 dollar Victoria Secret panties twirling on her index finger. Well as the weeks progressed we drilled down more into our fantasies and kept coming back to the subject of us sharing our bed with others. During foreplay and intercourse my normally conservative wife began panting and groaning profusely and then began in a very throaty voice whispering dirty talk to make a sailor blush. To quote "You'd like to see me get fucked and have some other guys cum running down my leg wouldn’t you". I about lost my mind and exploded in a tremendous orgasm. We collapsed and slept naked(Something we never do). Well as the weeks progressed the dirty talk and fantasies continued as well as the frequency of our sex. Well taking advice from here I really needed to gauge real interest and see if it was something she really wanted to pursue. So when Saturday night came around we ordered some Playboy, drank a wine cooler and did some petting and kissing. My heart was pounding and I was scared to ask. I pulled back and said "Honey I know we talk dirty and stuff but I really need to know..." "Do you want a 3 some or some other arrangement". Her answered floored me "Well I would like to surprise you and just fuck a guy with you watching". Sounds pretty standard stuff right? Well we dropped the subject and over the next few weeks the subject was brought up without awkwardness. Now I am an engineer and like specifics and a plan. My question is every time I ask her how she would like to accomplish this and other logistical questions she changes the subject. I did bring up Birth Control since I am snipped and just don't trust condoms for BC, since our Daughter is result of a busted one. I suggested the pill and once again she sloughed off my conversation. Does this sound like my wife wants to keep this in the realm of fantasy or is she being restrained by some conditioning that Mommies don’t do those naughty things.