[EternallySingle]

Personally, I think 7 months is too soon for a couple to be swinging, unless both partners had been involved in swinging in the past. Your rules make sense, but only in that you think they will keep you from stepping on the other person's feelings. You aren't thinking of having raw sex. You want to have mechanical sex. Undress, have intercourse, get dressed. I don't think you will have much fun doing that, and I'm sure the other couple might not agree to your rules.

It sounds like soft swinging would be best for you to at this moment. just keep the sex between you and your S/O instead of putting such rigid restrictions on what you do with another couple. Do the video taping and watching them, but don't engage in sex with them. If you are not going to do everything you can to pleasure someone else, what's the point of having sex with them?

Also, you might meet even more people who would rather tape and be taped rather than actually swapping partners or having threesomes. And over time, you might not feel the need for such rigid restrictions or the need to do more than that.


But thats just my opinion.