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SexAtItsBest · 11-17-2004, 01:41 AM

Well, the wya I see it is it's not like you were out cheating. You have openly been allowed to have sex with other people, so at least that is not an issue.

I am not going to argue the abortion/pro-life debate...but you have options. Number one: tell your husband. From there, just talk. Our bodies make babies sometimes whether we want them to or not. It's okay...

This may be a blessing in disguise, a wakeup call or a call for more attention to the matter of birth control. Whatever it is, if you have a strong relationship, you can talk through it and your options. If you don't want to talk to him, at least go to planned parenthood and talk to them. They have a very easy way of talking through your options/calming you, etc... (gee, my teenage years are visiting me all over again!) But seriously, this can be worked through one way or another...

Good luck! Take a deep breath and all will be okay one way or another. This is a huge oops, but take comfort in the fact that millions and millions of people have been there (including myself though not in the same way).

11-17-2004, 01:41 AM	#14 (permalink)
SexAtItsBest Registered Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Pacific paradise Status: couple.swinging alone	Re: Getting pregnant Well, the wya I see it is it's not like you were out cheating. You have openly been allowed to have sex with other people, so at least that is not an issue. I am not going to argue the abortion/pro-life debate...but you have options. Number one: tell your husband. From there, just talk. Our bodies make babies sometimes whether we want them to or not. It's okay... This may be a blessing in disguise, a wakeup call or a call for more attention to the matter of birth control. Whatever it is, if you have a strong relationship, you can talk through it and your options. If you don't want to talk to him, at least go to planned parenthood and talk to them. They have a very easy way of talking through your options/calming you, etc... (gee, my teenage years are visiting me all over again!) But seriously, this can be worked through one way or another... Good luck! Take a deep breath and all will be okay one way or another. This is a huge oops, but take comfort in the fact that millions and millions of people have been there (including myself though not in the same way).