 Re: Broken Agreements
Your rules are pretty simple, straight forward, and very common within the lifestyle. Except for #4 my wife and I have the same rules. So don't let him tell you that "this is the way they do it in the lifestyle" because that's not true for everyone.
You two need to talk it out, and he needs to realize that those rules are for both of your enjoyment, as well as your health. Swinging is a couple activity. Both have to be getting something from it. It only works when it is that way.
Maybe he'll realize what happened and the next time won't be that way. In the beginning, sometimes toes get stepped on as you learn and realize boundries, even if they were set out to begin with. In our first full swap experience we didn't use condoms, which we had agreed to. Things just got carried away in the heat of the moment. But, we have ever since.
Mr. WS
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