 Re: Broken Agreements
I'm also very sorry to hear that this has happend to you. Your husband should have respected your opinion and your comfort level. Me, personally, I would never be comfortable with my guy and another girl in a different room. EVER! Even if he wanted to do that, I would have never backed down from the way I feel. That would have ended the whole evening for me. I hope that you and your husband come to terms with what happened during that encounter, and that you will move on and continue to explore the lifestyle. However, I like everyone else who has posted a response, think that it is time to sit down and talk before going on with any encounters. IMO I believe that your rules weren't too much to ask. Especially if you both agreed to them before hand. That is why we set rules, so no boundries are crossed, and nobody gets hurt. Sounds like to me that he needs to look up the meanings of RESPECT and Understanding. Always explore at the pace of the slowest person. This should be common knowledge. If he likes the whole "Full Swap" thing, why would he break the rules? He has to know that this will only make you alot more Uncomfortable. I completely feel for you and hope that things work out for the best. If you ever need to talk, feel free to message me. I'm always here to lend an ear.
Ms. 20ish
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