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Old 11-15-2004, 08:40 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Default Re: Future fiance would like me out of the lifestyle. I NEED YUR HELP!!!

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Originally Posted by Hottimes
If we were to get married, would this later be an issue enough that our relationship would come to an end?.
If you were to get married under the assumption that you had given up the lifestyle, then this would absolutely be a deal-breaker, if you did not. As others have said, you need to decide for yourself what is most important. I'd garner to say that the vast majority of couples who are swingers, value their relationship with each other, first and foremost. Everything else is just icing. You need to decide which part of the cake you prefer. Just remember that without the cake, icing is nothing more than a lonely mass in a can or a remnant on your mixer...
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