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HotCoupleGnS · 11-15-2004, 04:32 PM

Everyone has there own opinion here on how to handel these types of situations. Here is mine & hubby's opinion. If something were to happen, we would have it taken care of & not have it. This world is cruel & kids already have a lot more to deal with growing up then most of any of us has ever had. (My 16 yr old brother is already into things I am just now finding out about at 22!) Families are so blended & messed up. Working for an attorney that does divorces, I see families fight over kids so nasty like it would make you sick. Hubby & I have our 2 kids. We may want another one, one day. If it were to happen by accident, that would be ok. But I would NEVER take a chance of having a kid that might be antone else's other than my husbands.

Now if you always make every guy use a condom, you might be pretty safe. I would sit down with your hubby & tell him. Then go to your Dr & get a professional test done. When i had my kids, the Dr. was able to tell me my exact conceivment date, within a day or so. That might help you. But as I said the most important thing to do, is t to your hubby. You guys got into this together, so you should deal with problems together.

11-15-2004, 04:32 PM	#8 (permalink)
HotCoupleGnS Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 967 Location: Tulsa, OK Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:HotCoupleGnS	Re: Getting pregnant Everyone has there own opinion here on how to handel these types of situations. Here is mine & hubby's opinion. If something were to happen, we would have it taken care of & not have it. This world is cruel & kids already have a lot more to deal with growing up then most of any of us has ever had. (My 16 yr old brother is already into things I am just now finding out about at 22!) Families are so blended & messed up. Working for an attorney that does divorces, I see families fight over kids so nasty like it would make you sick. Hubby & I have our 2 kids. We may want another one, one day. If it were to happen by accident, that would be ok. But I would NEVER take a chance of having a kid that might be antone else's other than my husbands. Now if you always make every guy use a condom, you might be pretty safe. I would sit down with your hubby & tell him. Then go to your Dr & get a professional test done. When i had my kids, the Dr. was able to tell me my exact conceivment date, within a day or so. That might help you. But as I said the most important thing to do, is t to your hubby. You guys got into this together, so you should deal with problems together.