Sparky,
We may have not stated our last post exactly as intended. The personalities are definitly important to us. But the attraction has to be there also.
Even the best personality will not make up for not being sexually attracted to the person(s). But the "flip side" of that is we are not interested in Pamala Anderson & Tom Selleck look-a-likes if we do not like them personally.
To get both of us to agree on both halves of a different couple can be challenging. Our point we wanted to make was that no one should take a refusal as a personnal insult and no one should have to explain their reasoning. As you stated earlier, "no pressure" should be the norm.
M&J
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