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sexRus50 · 11-12-2004, 11:10 AM

I had the same exact situation. Introduced my fiance to nude sunbathing by taking her to classiest club in America. When she was comfortable I took her to the nicest swingers club I could find as an intoduction only to see if she would be at all comfortable. I had been in the lifestyle with previous girlfriend for years. My lady was very reluctant.

We went to several clubs for two years to observe and get naked and make love to each other in the company of swingers. I did not give an ultimatum but suggested all the benefits of the lifestyle and pointed out the sheer bliss the couples were sharing. I appealed to her sexuality. She has now gone from "now way" two years ago to becoming a very active swinger who turns on an entire room. The key was no pressure and moving at her very slow pace. Yes, I think she felt she would lose me if she did not at least explore the possibility. We are deeply in love and will soon be getting married, and may do so at a class swingers club.

11-12-2004, 11:10 AM	#9 (permalink)
sexRus50 Active Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 14 Location: daytona beach	Re: Future fiance would like me out of the lifestyle. I NEED YUR HELP!!! I had the same exact situation. Introduced my fiance to nude sunbathing by taking her to classiest club in America. When she was comfortable I took her to the nicest swingers club I could find as an intoduction only to see if she would be at all comfortable. I had been in the lifestyle with previous girlfriend for years. My lady was very reluctant. We went to several clubs for two years to observe and get naked and make love to each other in the company of swingers. I did not give an ultimatum but suggested all the benefits of the lifestyle and pointed out the sheer bliss the couples were sharing. I appealed to her sexuality. She has now gone from "now way" two years ago to becoming a very active swinger who turns on an entire room. The key was no pressure and moving at her very slow pace. Yes, I think she felt she would lose me if she did not at least explore the possibility. We are deeply in love and will soon be getting married, and may do so at a class swingers club.