Here is something else to consider on this thread. We are talking about SEX. We are not talking about who we can work with, who are relatives are, who our kids run around with, or who our parents friends are. We are taliking about a couple being "sexually" attracted to a couple.
We have an ad on the swappernet and are really suprised by the number of people who will send a note and then if they are not for us want to get "pissy" and ask why. We are far from perfect and do not expect anyone else to be. But if we are not attracted, then we are not attracted.
Too old, too young, too skinny, too fat, does not matter. Not attracted means not attracted. We always send a personal reply, not the "canned" response. When they want to argue about how they are perfect for our profile and can't understand why we are not interested, then they fall into the "do not understand NO" catagory and are definitly not a contender.
When someone declines an offer it should not be taken personally as an offense. It could be that one of the couple "loved" your profile but the other did not... We do this together so we both have veto power.
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