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Old 11-12-2004, 08:05 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Default Re: He says yes, I say no

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Originally Posted by jeff n nikki
are you serious that he is all youll ever need or want sexually?alot of people say it.......but i dont buy it.
Well - I fantasize about being dressed up like "My Pretty Pony" and whipped with a riding crop while being fed baby carrots...

But I've never really wanted to do it...

That is a joke - but my point is, sometimes a fantasy (if we can assume that our newly joined txu has them) are just a fantasy. Sometimes fantasies are better left as such. Whether it is social norms, religious mores or personal preference, not everyone is a swinger.

And there is NOTHING wrong with that...

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Originally Posted by jeff n nikki
only since judaism,islam and christianity has that changed.
Just a quick aside, since you brought this up...

In judaism the wealthiest of men owned concubines like cattle...

In islam (though I am not a familiar) the promise to a martyr is an eternity with a big collection of virgins...

In Christianity, one can make numerous arguements for the openness of the marriage to sexual exploration in a mutually consentual way...

The argument that "religion has spoiled my fun" misses a lot of historical perspective.

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