 Re: Help! Can't get it up with another woman?!
Jumping on the bandwagon a little late on this thread, but whatever...
Mr. Intuition and I ran into the same issues when we first started out with full swap. He was concerned that it was broke or something.. lol He had NO trouble getting an erection while he and the other husband watched his wife and I playing, but as soon as the 'interactive' stuff started, we ran into problems. He was quite relieved to find he had a raging hard-on once we were alone and the performance-pressure was off. Yup, there was no doubt that Mr. Happy was working VERY well. After quite a lot of discussion, we realized that it was a combination of performance anxiety and his fear of hurting me. This was our first attempt at full swap and I guess we hadn't discussed things as thoroughly as we should've. We each just needed one another's reassurance that - yes - this was really ok! Go! Enjoy yourself. Once we each saw that the other wasn't upset, hurt or jealous, it was much easier to let go.
Hope this helps.
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