 Re: He says yes, I say no
Not much can be said that hasn't been said already. Great posts above, all right on the mark, IMHO.
Not just in swinging, but anytime a spouse shows the "Divorce" card, it seems to be a sure sign of immaturity. He's a fool, methinks, and this little act is showing the child inside. Wouldn't talking about it and coming to some sort of compromise that all can live with be preferrable to him than divorce? I often wonder what goes through people's minds when that happens.
Anyway, unregistered, my biggest fear for you is that even if you two get this situation straightened out, he may play that card again for some other disagreement. I don't believe anyone needs that in their lives. Last time I checked, that's not what marriage is supposed to be about.
Watch yourself and please take care. You've done nothing wrong. Remember that.
Mr. Funk
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