 Mrs here-
ok, thank GOD for Spoomonkey.
I was all set to GO OFF on the first couple of replies until he set it all straight.
Good for you to be willing enough to even TRY swinging. How many husbands get on this board & gripe that their wives won't even think of it, so they are on their own(cheating) or trying to figure out how to 'convince' them?
Take it at your pace. I will admit when this all came about for us, I was less than thrilled at the thought of Mr Naughty going at it with some other chick. It had NOTHING to do with "SHE MIGHT BE BETTER THAN ME". It had to do with many other emotional issues that are pounded into women their whole lives.
As we got a little experience & met some compatible people(finally) it really is no big deal anymore.
I'd say that you are the slowest person so everyone should be at your comfort level.
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