 Re: Willing to do it, but dont want him to
We agree with Spoo! My goodness, if people reacted this way when a couple said they only play with single women: The cost would probably go up for single women at the swing clubs, wouldn't it?
You need to do whatever you're comfortable with! There are many couples who only play with women, or only play with men, or only couples, only bi, only straight, only oral, only female/female play, etc........we could go on and on! Swinging is what is right for you and your hubby, not what is right for anyone else (other than the people you are having sex with, of course). Jealousy, and insecurities are normal human emotions that most of us have at some point in time whether you swing or not. Just read through the board some more, and you'll find that even long term swingers run into those issues from time to time. Move at you and your husbands pace, with the slowest one in the lead. Someday, you may be comfortable with more, but let it come naturally through lots of discussion between the two of you.
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