 Re: Willing to do it, but dont want him to
Well, we have been with another couple, and they were very close to me, a lot of trust between the four of us. She wanted to see her husband have sex with me, and my guy was all for it, but my guy didn't want to have sex with her....And of course....I was just fine with that too. She touched him a couple times, which at first made me a lil uncomfortable, and he touched her a couple times, but I just went with the flow of things....and everything worked out well. Sometimes, what one person may consider "swinging" another person doesn't, and thats just fine. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and I think this topic, will bring a lot of opinions out. My guy is more of a watcher, he thinks it awesome watching me be pleasured by another man, he says he gets to watch my facial expressions, and all the lil things I do, things that he sometimes doesn't notice when he is involved. But I often do feel guilty because I WANT him to experience another woman, but am not completely comfortable with it. I think that if you aren't completely comfortable with something and do it anyway, it will only make things worse. So we just take it slow, inch our way into things. It's just what works for us. Hopefully, someday we will meet the right couple, that want to be friends outside the bedroom, who aren't pushy, so that we can enjoy a full swing....but right now, we are having a hard time finding that. So right now we are just doing what we know we are 100% comfortable with.
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