 Re: Willing to do it, but dont want him to
I ran across a similiar scenario at a club. The woman came to me and asked me what we were into. Well she explained that I could be with her and her husband but my husband could only watch or only touch me. Her husband doesn't want her with other men and they just seek out those who will respect that. They must make it work well for them because they are frequenly at the club and haven't given up. For us we want the experience to be more equal. I would feel guilty if my husband could only watch and be left out if he didn't want to. I agree with Spoomonkey, you're still new swingers and through comminication you can either work through what bothers you about it or find what works for you.
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