I think I'd have to agree with Spoo on this one.....There are all different types of comfort levels.....I can relate to the uncomfortableness. I have been there, however, my hubby is very satisfied watching, sharing me, and with only a single guy involved. I have said it before on here, and I'll say it again....RIGHT NOW.....I'm not completely 100% comfortable sharing my guy with just anyone...but if the right couple came along, then sure why not....but for now, just taking it one step at a time. Although it may sound selfish to say that you don't want your other half messing around with another girl, it's not always the case. Sometimes you need to look within yourself, How do you feel about YOU? Sometimes being insecure about how you see yourself is the reason some women are uncomfortable with sharing. Which is the problem that I am facing. I am overcoming that obstacle, because I really like the swinging lifestyle...But its a slow process. Your Hubby obviously loves you....why else would he be with you? Try not to be afraid, free your mind, and be open. Maybe you should just give it a try, maybe not let him join in completely, but just a lil at first, until you become more comfortable. You should come up with a signal, that way if you start to feel uncomfortable with it, you can give your hubby the signal, and he'll no to back off a lil bit without being rude or disrespectful. Anyway. I hope this helps a lil bit. If you come back to read it and have any questions, feel free to message me. And if you don't. well then maybe this will help someone else out in the future. ~ Always ~ 20ishCouple
