Hey...You are
still new to the swinging thing.
1st of all, you are unregistered so it's hard to take you seriously. But hey, I'm the gullible type.
I never have understood this "I'm not comfortable with him being with other women" thing. What is your point exactly? Swinging is about couple(s) being with another couple(s). I might allow for the stretch of and FMF or MFM within the confines of the couple/couple combination. But this! "You have to sit there, Hubby, and watch me" crap.
Get over it. Don't you
WANT him to be as free as
YOU are?

Surrender
If you are jealous of another womans attention towards him, you'll never make it as
swingers. (IMHO)
What up wid dat? (or dis?) (Or da udder?)
Male D