The Swingers Board - View Single Post - I want to have sex with others but can't handle watching him do it

jeff n nikki · 11-10-2004, 02:12 AM

sounds kinda selfish. YOU ARE AFRAID THAT SHE WILL BE BETTER THAN YOU.
so what if she is?(probably wont be, as good sex comes from comfortability. and are you not the most comfy with your spouse?). it is a brief moment in time were 2 people shared a amazing experiance(we hope!!). will it affect his love for you? or you for him? men seperate sex and love better than women do.....so i wouldnt worry about that. ive been in love many times........none came from a good f$@k. relax,figure out why it would turn you off. look at it from a diff. point of view. what negative result could come from him being with another female? ask your self that...see if you can find a rational conclusion to your opposition. you might change your mind.

11-10-2004, 02:12 AM	#2 (permalink)
jeff n nikki Active Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 20 Location: oswego ny Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jeff n nikki	Re: Willing to do it, but dont want him to sounds kinda selfish. YOU ARE AFRAID THAT SHE WILL BE BETTER THAN YOU. so what if she is?(probably wont be, as good sex comes from comfortability. and are you not the most comfy with your spouse?). it is a brief moment in time were 2 people shared a amazing experiance(we hope!!). will it affect his love for you? or you for him? men seperate sex and love better than women do.....so i wouldnt worry about that. ive been in love many times........none came from a good f$@k. relax,figure out why it would turn you off. look at it from a diff. point of view. what negative result could come from him being with another female? ask your self that...see if you can find a rational conclusion to your opposition. you might change your mind.