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youngswingers · 05-03-2002, 11:20 AM

Wow... we generally are defending young swingers from older swingers' stereotypes and so it is a little weird doing defending young swingers from youn swingers' stereotypes. Just look at this thread, 5 young swingers (swinger under 35 fit our profile of young) who don't fit their own stereotypes! We have news for you... the majority of young swingers are just like you. Yes, we prefer swinging with people we find physically attractive but that doesn't mean hardbodies need only apply. Of our core group of swinging friends we have a lot of body types represented and that makes things interesting [Wink]

Don't be fooled to thinking that this is a majority issue. We have met plenty of "hard body only" older swingers. The common misconception is that they are few and far between but that is not true the percentages are about the same. Because the pool of young swingers is smaller you'll bump into to "hard body" swingers more often.

One last suggestion, the majority of swingers (both young and old) are like people in this thread. I'm willing to bet that there are swingers in your area and in your peer group that have stayed away from the scene for the because of the very same concerns you brought up. Our advice is to start a swingers group in your area. Find another couple to go out with and start meeting more people. As you get out, you'll be helping both yourselves and others!

See you out there!

05-03-2002, 11:20 AM	#6 (permalink)
youngswingers Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2001 Posts: 98 Location: Austin, TX	Wow... we generally are defending young swingers from older swingers' stereotypes and so it is a little weird doing defending young swingers from youn swingers' stereotypes. Just look at this thread, 5 young swingers (swinger under 35 fit our profile of young) who don't fit their own stereotypes! We have news for you... the majority of young swingers are just like you. Yes, we prefer swinging with people we find physically attractive but that doesn't mean hardbodies need only apply. Of our core group of swinging friends we have a lot of body types represented and that makes things interesting Don't be fooled to thinking that this is a majority issue. We have met plenty of "hard body only" older swingers. The common misconception is that they are few and far between but that is not true the percentages are about the same. Because the pool of young swingers is smaller you'll bump into to "hard body" swingers more often. One last suggestion, the majority of swingers (both young and old) are like people in this thread. I'm willing to bet that there are swingers in your area and in your peer group that have stayed away from the scene for the because of the very same concerns you brought up. Our advice is to start a swingers group in your area. Find another couple to go out with and start meeting more people. As you get out, you'll be helping both yourselves and others! See you out there!