My sweetie and I sometimes worry about not being "hard bodys", too. We've swung seperatley, but would like to together, probably soft swing to start. But I think it would be easier with either a) friends who are into the lifestyle (or are open minded) or b) Grown ups! that is to say mature minded people who aren't overly superficial. Sometimes, real life seems like high-school all over again! Anyway, my philosophy (this week, at least) is, though they say "love is blind", I told my fiance a while back that people who AREN'T in love are blind! Love opened our eyes! She loves my pudgy belly! I like her paunch (which, despite what tv and magazine ads would have you believe, is a fact of life!) and her funny chin, etc. It's all part of her. If you're with someone you love, you know what I mean. A good freind you can share some "fooling around" with would be similiar; They're just glad to be with you, and glad to be in bed with someone they know, trust and enjoy being around! As for those superficial people, their really not people I want to be spending a lot of time with, y'know what I mean? I wish you all good, fun lovin'! signed, eyes-opened in Iowa
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