Although we are 41/45 respectivley we will be married for 20 years next March. We often ask couples how long they have been married because we too find a strong marriage leads to less drama. I am surprised at the number of long term marriages there are in the swinger world as it seems to be better than the norm.
The best swing experience I have had has been with a man that is 62 and we have been together several times. I really enjoy how attentive he is to my wants and how intuitive he is also. Experience, you can't beat it.