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bear_and_babe · 11-08-2004, 08:27 PM

Boy, this is a hard question. I am still trying to figure this out for myself. I am a BBW also, and a little shy.

When I am at a club and see a guy I might be interested in, I will ask him to dance. Or, like this last week, I approached the guy's wife. Struck up a conversation with her, then said I said I would like to meet her husband. Well, that worked! Another thought is to find something to complement him on. Maybe he has a tattoo, an earring that you like and you can chat with him about. Anything to open the door. I have also found that if I am talking to a guy and I get the vib that he wants to play, it has always been me to ask him to a room. It is like most guys don't want to be seen as being pushy.

Good luck with this. Maybe someone else has some other ideas...

11-08-2004, 08:27 PM	#2 (permalink)
bear_and_babe Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 209 Location: PA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:bear_and_babe	Re: How do you approach someone at a party? Boy, this is a hard question. I am still trying to figure this out for myself. I am a BBW also, and a little shy. When I am at a club and see a guy I might be interested in, I will ask him to dance. Or, like this last week, I approached the guy's wife. Struck up a conversation with her, then said I said I would like to meet her husband. Well, that worked! Another thought is to find something to complement him on. Maybe he has a tattoo, an earring that you like and you can chat with him about. Anything to open the door. I have also found that if I am talking to a guy and I get the vib that he wants to play, it has always been me to ask him to a room. It is like most guys don't want to be seen as being pushy. Good luck with this. Maybe someone else has some other ideas...