I can agree with you. I have had 3 kids and the oldest is 3. I'm still getting rid of the "baby fat" so to speak. I was never slim/skinny before having children nor did I want to be. All the curves were in all of the right places and very comfortable with my body image. Realistically it is going to take more time to get where I was prechildren. I guess I'm built for comfort now.
Couples that state 'we know where the gym is - nudge, nudge, wink, wink' etc. sound to me that they are only looking hard bodies. We don't even pretend to be something that we are not.
We clearly seek single men 30-40 years old, yet we get all these 25-28 year olds boasting how hot they are. Give me a break, although there is only a couple of years difference, we are worlds apart. I must say that we haven't had any responses beyond our age range though.
In short I don't think that we are alone, just the minority.
"A" the wife
[ 05-01-2002, 08:52 PM: Message edited by: sexypairca ]