[Mike and Jan]

It sounds like this something you really want and maybe need. And, the fact you've tasted a small sample already leads me to believe it's only going to get worse.
You're young and so is your husband. But, I really think it's best for both of you for you to lay it on the line. Work it out now or go your separate ways. There's a lot of young women who'd love to have a man who's against swinging and one hell of a lot of young men who'd die to find a lady who wants it!
Rich