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Originally Posted by EvilMJ Wetpanties is right....you are not talking about a swinging experience, you are talking about cheating. If you are doing ANYTHING behind your husbands back then you are cheating and it shows very little love and respect for your SO.
What I would suggest is get your mind in the right place and decide what is the most important to you....your husband, or playing with these men...and remember, your marriage depends on it! |
Dito
Swinging is about trust and making sure your SO and their feelings come before yours or anyone elses. You can't get your husband to consider swinging because you cheat on him and he can't trust you. If you want him to ever consider it you need to build a relationship with him first.
Not to mention that you are also helping two married men cheat on their wives....It sounds like you work with these guys. Hope if you do their wives don't have to attend company events with you. How degrading for them!